My bf(M20) and I(F20) live two completely different lives. I'm a student at a very demanding school/course, he quit school last year because trading was taking him very well for some time. He made really really good money, and he'd blow it all on clubbing and stuff (never on girls though... As far as he told me). We have known each other for 3 months so far, started dating 3 days into knowing each other. He hasn't really had money for the time I've known him. He's waiting for some good capital then he can become "moneyed" again. Here's the problem... I feel like once he gets money, we'll be very very incompatible. (I think I'm just insecure... Idk). He wants to travel the world. He tells me that the first country he plans to visit is South Africa. HAVE YOU SEEN THE WOMEN IN SOUTH AFRICA OMFG?! 😭😭😭😭😭 Mind you, he plans to be clubbing a lot. Idk how this is supposed to work... Me in school 5/7 days a week studying while my bf travels to different countries clubbing and blowing money on god knows what. I have this fear that money might change him (considering I've never experienced the moneyed version of him). About him leaving school, he's entirely convinced that he's gonna make it trading and he won't need backup. Considering he sees all these young rich trading gurus online.
tl;Dr: bf quit school, he wants to travel the world. I'm occupied with school and I'm scared we might drift apart once he gets money. Also, I find myself questioning his decision to leave school considering he could have done school and trading concurrently.