friend thinks we'd stop our plans if she didnt like it, gets bitter when we go through the plans
20F, we're all in the same batch. this situation happened twice, one was last year when she had her ex. she was always unavailable and didnt make effort when we planned trips making so and so comments on why this place is bad, she didnt want to drink bla bla. so we continued the trip without her. then we posted that we did go to the trip, she would comment "oh just that place?" implying it wasnt impressive.
now, she has a new girl. same cyle bla bla. we wanted to go out for the night and when planning prior, she already said "pass", she didnt want to do trips like that anymore, so we still continued the trip which was hella fun. now posting, she had to comment another bitter thing and i replied that she didnt come in the first place. replying to my dms she had to pull the taking care of family card. its givinggg gaslighting. i wont go to details why i necessarily dont think there is some truth to what she said, but she said that to guilt trip us even more. what matters anyways is that its a never ending cycle. is my friend a narcisist? she thinks we wont continue a trip if she doesnt like it.