Recently just broke up with my ex girlfriend of years and also cancelled off wedding. Had return her share of the wedding banquet/vendor expenses.
However, when comes to the forfeit for the BTO, she felt that I am responsible to pay her back in cash. Approximately 15k from the loss from CPF. Do you think I should be paying her back the money?
We both paid 50/50 for the BTO deposit.
Legally I am not obliged to pay her anything but she and her family are determined to have the money back and been pursuing me constantly on this issue. This leads to number of harassment messages from them.
Is it a must to pay her back? I just don’t find it justifiable to pay her back entirely. I have bare a substantial amount of money with the loss of the wedding and now another round for the CPF money.
I have already paid her back the banquet/vendor cost even before I am able to get a refund from the shops and now they are coming for more.
*no cheating involved with the breakup. I initiate the cancellation as foresee a divorce with the internal problem in the relationship not resolved. It’s a last minute decision to back off and woke up from it.