Trying to keep this as anon as possible. I dated this person for 8 months, and we broke up over a year ago. I broke up with them to be clear. This person was nice but very much a "I will do whatever it takes to get what I want" person, which could be seen as a "go getter" in certain contexts. But they were very insistent. They were nice but ignored my boundaries in subversive ways, moved way too fast for me, etc. I had healthy reasons for the breakup.
Then this person keeps messaging me, trying to be friends. It hurt too much to talk to them so I told them I didn't want contact anymore. To just stop contacting me or trying to start conversations.
This person really got along with my parents and sibling. So they didn't want to let go of the relationship with my parent or sibling. Wanted mentorship even though they have a whole group of other mentors in their life to choose from.
My ex didn't contact my family until recently after running into my parent. Now they want to hang out again and my parents is entertaining the idea, even though I've clearly voiced I don't like that. It feels like they're just trying to win my parent over so my parent can eventually side with them to get back to with me. My parent said "I would hope you trust me enough to keep the conversation with your ex away from you."
My parent enjoys talking with my ex and it feels selfish they're choosing them over how I feel, especially when they know the reasons I broke up with them. AIO to my parent meeting with my ex?