Why do some men publicly shame “modern women” but privately prefer them?
I already know this might trigger people in Morocco, but I just want to share an honest thought and see opinions.
Without bringing religion into it, I genuinely don’t think there is anything wrong with women being free and living their lives how they want. Dress how you want, go out, have male friends, date, explore relationships, live your youth… ana personally I don’t see it as something “bad” by default.
What I find interesting is the double standard.
A lot of men say they prefer “traditional modest girls” and publicly criticize modern women… but privately, they are often attracted to the exact opposite. They follow them, like their posts, DM them, flirt with them, sometimes even try to hook up with them. Donc soyons honnêtes un peu.
And I’m not saying everyone should think the same. If you prefer traditional women for serious relationships, that’s fine. If you prefer modern women for fun or compatibility, that’s also fine. People have different preferences.
But here’s my real point:
Why shame a type of woman you are clearly still interested in privately?
Why act like you hate something you are still consuming or chasing?
That’s where it starts feeling hypocritical to me. 7itach honestly, if you really dislike something, you don’t spend your time looking for it.
Modern relationships also changed a lot. People can meet, date, connect, enjoy experiences, and if it doesn’t work, they move on. No need to turn everything into marriage pressure or social drama.
As long as there is respect and consent between adults, fin المشكل؟
I’m not saying one type is better than the other. I’m just saying stop pretending. Be honest with yourself: you like what you like.
Curious to hear what you think about this, especially the difference between what people who say publicly vs what they actually do privately.
bizzare🤔😅