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My partner and I are looking for a couple's therapist.

We saw one in the past but we felt like they were very ineffective. It really just felt like they were a speaking stick facilitator. They didn't give us any homework, held us accountable or confronted us on bad behavior.

We're looking for a new therapist and wanted to pick around for what y'all think are good things to look for in a couple's therapist as well what are realistic expectations should be.

A little bit more about us, we're very data and results driven. When we've seen a couple's therapist and or individual therapists, we've responded best to tangible assignments, observations and pushback. We're already capable of talking and sharing our feelings with each other (neither of us may be the best at listening). We want a therapist to be a pragmatic and medical third party that can help guide us towards finding solutions for our relationship disagreements.

Any advice is appreciated

Really weird question, but I promise it’s innocent curiosity.

I saw a photo of a restaurant restroom that had a framed picture of that same restroom hanging on the wall.

It made me think: what if there was a hidden camera connected to a projector that occasionally projected a live image onto the picture? Since the person in the restroom would be the only thing changing, it would basically look like the framed photo suddenly “came alive” for a moment. If done well, it seems like it would be a really creepy but interesting effect.

That immediately made me wonder about the legality of it, since putting surveillance equipment in a restroom is obviously illegal in most situations. I’m curious what circumstances, if any, could make something like that legal.

To be clear, I do not own a restaurant and have no intention of doing this. It was just a random thought experiment that crossed my mind.

I was thinking if you put up a sign that explained the situation to anyone before they entered the bathroom and took extra measures to prove that nothing was being archived or saved and the camera was just being used for a live feed. Still, I have no idea how you could actually prove that was the case.

I grew up seeing this our arcade game at the roller rink. It was a 3D beat em up. If memory serves, it started out in kind of like a car park truck loading Bay. One of the next rooms was a bathroom and you could break people on the urinals. The final boss was some dude in a private corporate office room. There were square pillars that would shoot out of the walls.

I don't know what the story was but it was about one or two dudes trying to rescue a kidnapped lady.