what do bottoms want?
Autistic top here with a decent package and a body that gets the job done. Successful too, which seems to matter sometime. But stepping into the moment, be it a hookup, a date, or even a relationship seems to end up turning into an awkward and unsatisfying misadventure. And bottoming is just boring for me.
Guys will say they want to get thrown around and pounded down, and I'm all for it, but then it seems like there's this invisible checklist of things I'm supposed to be or do or the whole thing falls apart. Apparently, my spectrum brain just can't read between the lines or didn't get the manual. And just about the only thing I know for certain is asking is a huge turn-off.
So I'll put it out there: what do all you cock whores want and expect to happen from the moment some guy knocks on the door?