Parents did nothing for my birthday yet expect me to be there for mothers and Father’s Day
I just had this realization that all I got for my bday was a phone call that ended up in an argument without saying goodbye but god forbid I don’t drive to see my mom for Mother’s Day and get her a gift for it too. They’ll make excuses like “well it’s just ur 27th bday. It’s not an important one.” Every birthday is important bc you never know if it’s the last. Why can’t we just celebrate Mother’s Day every 5-10y then?? This is my first Mother’s Day not living at home so I had to actively choose to be here but obviously I just did it bc scared of the backlash but tbh I don’t want to be here nor get her a gift. Mind you I now live 3/4h away (by choice). They’d probably also accuse me saying “well it was your choice to move that far away so you can’t expect us to want to drive there” or some shit like that