I'm almost fully healed, but after the discard I got really interested in attachment theory. I'm not writing this to get answers, to vent, or to fish for compassion; rather I'm just curious and wonder how y'all think.
So here's the thing, I've been discarded by an FA for almost 6 months now, she blocked me right after the discard, unblocked me about 2 months later, and then blocked me again recently. To be fair I could care less now, but I just wonder how likely they're doing this because they still get triggered, feel unsafe...etc. Or could they just be doing this out of spite, for instance a "hey, I get to make the final blow, if i block, i win" mindset.
Recently I feel like some avoidants have the tendencies to do this, to show to whomever they want that they are the only ones that get to make power moves, and that they always want to have the last laugh.