my coworkers are very loud and there are six of us, we don't work in a big office with a hundred people i don't know, we are close.
for example three were having a loud conversation about being cold and tired and wanting a break, it's about that time, i say "why don't you go up to the trucks and warm up, when us two are done doing this [task that takes two minutes] we'll join you." immediate silence after literal screaming had been involved in the conversation. why are they so offended? i know i didn't say anything rude. i know if it was literally any other co-worker they would've continued and welcomed them with open arms, why am i the exception? i'm friendly except when they're obviously treating me lesser than. i'm kind and put others above myself. unlike them, i don't lash out in the work setting unless i fear for the safety of someone (some what of a dad mode). so what's the real problem?
edit: i appreciate the comments. another coworker said it and they didn't stop immediately, stare at him like an alien, and ignore him.
does anyone know some things that people do to make them generally off putting to others? i feel like it's kind of like the difference between being a quiet kid at school vs being "the quiet kid"