u/Immediate-Speed3974

26F here. I genuinely don’t understand what’s going on with some guys and their parents. They have zero communication among themselves, yet they portray their son as if he’s extraordinary.

The first person I spoke to, his mother told me he was busy with March-end work which I completely understood. I assumed he would message once he was free. But when he finally did, all he talked about was how busy he is and how he has no time to even think about an arranged marriage. When I mentioned what his mother had said he casually replied, “I have nothing to do with March-end.” I was like wow.

Another person, we exchanged numbers and barely spoke before he left me on seen for days. He lives in Hyderabad while his parents are in the same city. Then his mother called me asking why I am not replying to his messages. I was honestly shocked. What kind of behavior is that, lying so blatantly and shifting the blame onto me in front of his family?

And then she had the audacity to say, “Why don’t you just call him? He’s very shy,” and started laughing. What kind of parenting is this? Your son cannot even hold a basic conversation?

I don’t know. I am just fed up with this whole setup and people like this.