u/Imaginary_Shake_2732

I (30F) recently started having sex with (48M). We’re not in a committed relationship yet. He’s well endowed and I don’t have much sexual experience. He often makes comments about his size and since we started having sex..it’s all he talks about. First time we had sex, he inspected my vagina with his finger as if to check whether I’m tight or not. His version of dirty talk is making me say that I love his big penis and often brags about how he’s the largest size I’ve ever taken. Last night he repeated something he once said in passing.. that he’s wrecked me and nobody else will get the chance to enjoy me. I finally called him out on it but he brushed it off as “just guy talk” and that I shouldn’t internalize it. Well.. too late. It’s making me feel insecure. Should I be concerned about this behavior? Is this abuse? A kink? He has other great qualities about him.