u/Illustrious_Arm_8036

Long story short, I’ve been involved with someone for years. Literally late 2019 til now. It’s been on and off for the most part. Around the time we first met, I wasn’t mentally prepared to be out and open with a guy so it scared me. Fast forward to now, we have hell of history. An insane amount of history because of our on and off. Welp, today I was told that they met someone else and wants to date them after weeks of us being together intimately again. Granted, I knew it was coming. I expected it. This has happened like 2 times with him and it is a pretty predictable pattern considering it’s literally been done.

But how common is this? Is this a big thing in the gay community?