Please help..
I’m currently on a burner because i don’t know if he’s monitoring my reddit account or not, but i don’t know what to do. For some background me (21m) and my roommate (19m) met in highschool through some mutual friends, and we’ve been like siblings ever since. Fast forward to last year he met his now current boyfriend (18m) and everything seemed to do a complete 180. I didn’t notice the switch at first since we weren’t really hanging out at the time and i was getting off a really bad manic episode while working constantly,but my other roommate (19f) noticed pretty quickly. Some things went down between him and his now ex boyfriend and he accused him of things which at this point i don’t even know are even true? Me, him, and my other roommate scrambled to get an apartment this past January. Well, he was off his antipsychs and we were all in a new place so there was a scenario for that which ended up being me calling the cops because he just took off down the highway in the middle of the night. I just wanted to make sure he was okay. Couple of months go by, i lose my job, but i quickly got a new one, everything seemed absolutely amazing. Until yesterday. My friend (21m), who has NO connection to this at all he’s just heard me talk about my roommates in passing on the way to work, found a reddit post in our state’s Reddit of him victimizing himself, painting me out to be this horrible abuser and him going by (19f) in the post how he’s “a female and paranoid” we’re both trans. I’ve not once laid a hand on him, and have explicitly stated him, and my girlfriend, are the only people i would not get into a physical fight with because 1. It’d be unfair, and 2. I genuinely really love the both of them so why would i?? I don’t want to share the receipts in case he’s just looking for something to use against me, but I’m literally being threatened with losing my apartment and i don’t know what to do. Please help..