Made a throwaway account to post i was manipulated badly
I , 23 ( F) lost my virginity to a man , we were both virgins he pursued me first was all lovey dovey would text me daily try to keep tabs on what is going on with my life kept on being sexual on text and when he started calling me babe I asked him what is going on what are we so he says oh I am not stable right now I can't commit I was like okay alright then just hit me up when we sleep.
So he makes a plan to take my virginity on my very birthday even though I didn't want to at first but I reluctantly agreed .
He was quite bad at sex didn't get me wet didn't do any foreplay and was trying penetration immediately after 10 minutes ofcourse his dick couldn't go in
I started bleeding heavily on my birthday in a random dingy hotel he got scared just told me to blow him and I went on to celebrate with my friends
I was absolutely sore for a week and was still lightly bleeding when I sent him a picture of me bleeding he just said " great"
I was absolutely fuming i called him up on it so he apologize and said he was "zoned out".
And he said that I was a virgin so I was supposed to bleed
Anyways then I slept with him for the second time for the last time since he was leaving the city and I wanted a good experience I thought maybe he was a virgin so he didn't know better but he was awful the second time as well i had to bring lube with me so penetration doesn't hurt and after sex he asked for anal which I refused.
I thought he would be a good friend atleast but as soon as he left the city he started ignoring me and my nudes so I moved on
But exactly after 20 days he comes back all entitled and asks me to send him my nudes because he is just horny and misses my ass
I politely declined and told him when I needed his attention he was not there
He was quite surprised and said I was being unreasonable for being angry
Blocked him
So he started asking his friend to dm me and ask what js up