So i think the best way for me to describe my question is by talking about some of my experiences.
Im 20f and a while back i wanted to go study at a cafe but my parents reacted in a much more different way then i expected them to, I basically was attacked by a bunch of insane and absurd accusations like i must be hanging with the wrong crowd, im a slut, i send money to old men and that i must be dealing with men taking advantage of me (mind u im a lesbian and i dont have any friends in the city i live in and if you see me in person you’d never think of me as someone who’s boy crazy…)
They were just a bunch of accusations that attack my bodily autonomy and these came from both my n-father and my mother but mostly my father, also when i was 12 they used to always check my phone because they were convinced that im sending naked pictures to men.
Why do n-parents seem to love to throw ridiculous and shitty accusations and excuse me for cussing but i have been trying to understand the psychology behind this for a while now.