My gf and I have been polyamorous from the start, 14 years ago. We started long distance, now we're living 5 minutes apart.
My other partners are long distance, her other partner is her nesting partner now. They have children together, I live alone and childless by choice.
I love being part of the new family, but I miss my girlfriend.
She's constantly overwhelmed by her new life, I'm feeling neglected. She doesn't know how to handle having two close partners at once, I don't even know what I can reasonably expect of her. Our relationship is different now, but there seems to be no quiet time to discuss and reflect the changes.
I would love some ressources for how to navigate this kind of polyamory combination, ideally tiktoks or something else to be consumed in short bursts.
Advice and stories are welcome as well, thanks!