u/Ill-Actuary-9528

▲ 0 r/email

I got tired of platforms deciding what I see. So I built my self a digest, inside my inbox.

I selected all the topics I actually care about and now I receive them in one email. I picked email because there is no algorithm that tries to hook you into scrolling. I only want to read what matters and that's it -> This is where emails are really good at.

The thing is, most people have no idea email can work this way. Most people have inboxes that are a mess of unread newsletters and promos, so they write it off completely. But if you customise it for yourself it can really be useful.

Email is probably the best way to stay genuinely informed on topics you love. You just have to build it that way yourself.

Anyone else using their inbox like this?

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 11 days ago
▲ 4 r/IMadeThis+1 crossposts

Two months ago I started building Read What Matters and I've been working on it pretty much every day since then.

The idea was simple from the beginning. One email that pulls together everything you actually care about in tech, AI, business, and startups, without the stuff you don't.

I got people on a waitlist early on but I couldn't manage to convert them. I've made a post here in SideProject about it a month ago with a focus on tech founders specifically and that didn't really land the way I hoped. So here I am trying again, this time with a clearer sense of what this thing actually is and who it's genuinely for.

It's not just for founders. It's for anyone who takes tech and startups seriously and is tired of how broken the whole "staying informed" routine has become. You shouldn't have to spend 45 minutes every morning jumping between tabs and apps just to find the right information. Now you can select your own sources and get news and insight that matter to you.

I've lowered the price for almost 70% on purpose because I want this to be something anyone can try without overthinking it.

Here's the link if anyone wants to try: read-what-matters.com

I'd genuinely love to hear what your current reading setup looks like and what feels broken about it.

u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 13 days ago

For a while I told myself it was just part of the routine. Wake up, check Twitter, scroll HN, skim TechCrunch, open Reddit, catch a Medium article, loop back. Maybe 40 minutes. Maybe more.

I called it "staying sharp." Really it was just anxiety with a productivity label on it.

I'm mostly into tech, AI, and startups. So naturally I wanted to actually stay on top of what's happening in those spaces without missing things. The problem was never the sources. It was the format. Infinite scroll, algorithm deciding what felt urgent, and somehow finishing a session feeling less informed than when I started.

So I ran a small experiment. I replaced the whole morning loop with a single email digest built around exactly those niches. Three to five topics, from the sources I personally selected: Hacker News, TechCrunch, Medium, Google News. I probably can't link the tool but I'll mention it in the comments. Basically you pick your sources, it curates what's worth reading, drops it in your inbox which is actually insane

The email part matters more than it sounds. Because there is no algorithm trying to keep you hooked. You read it, close it and move on.

I spend maybe 5-10 minutes on news now instead of 40. I actually remember what I read. And I feel like I'm covering more ground, not less, because I'm not re-reading the same recycled takes across six different apps.

Attention is becoming something people will have to actively protect. Curated and intentional is starting to feel like a real edge over the default scroll.

Curious if anyone else made a similar switch. What actually worked for you?

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 15 days ago
▲ 1 r/GMail

After an hour of scrolling, there's a specific kind of tired that hits. Not the good kind. Your eyes are strained, mood's slightly off, and if someone asked what you actually read you'd struggle to name two things.

I kept telling myself I was keeping up. I wasn't. I was just staying occupied.

The people who actually know things, who can hold a conversation without fishing around in vague memory, almost none of them scroll feeds. They have a newsletter or two, a digest in the morning, and when it's done, it's done. That finite ending is the whole point.

Switched to that email format a few months ago. I retain more. I have better conversations. And I catch myself noticing how much of what I called "being informed" was really just my brain in motion, without going anywhere.

Anyone else made this switch? Curious what formats or sources actually stuck for you

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 16 days ago

There's this thing that happens as a student where money stress just lives in the background constantly. You're not broke exactly, but you're also never sure where things stand. And somehow it always feels like the wrong time to deal with it.

I told myself I'd figure it out after this semester. After I moved. After I got a part-time job. It never happened on its own.

What finally worked was embarrassingly simple a Google Sheet from Write It Down (write-it-down.com). I'd tried proper budgeting apps before and dropped them every time. Too much setup, too easy to ignore. The sheet I actually open every week because it takes two minutes.

The other thing that clicked: replacing "I want to save more" with "I want to have €150 set aside by end of month." Vague goals don't survive student life. Specific numbers do.

Still not perfect at it. But that quiet background anxiety got a lot quieter once I could actually see the numbers, even when they weren't great.

Anyone else find that simpler systems work better than the "proper" ones? What are you using?

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 16 days ago
▲ 364 r/simpleliving+1 crossposts

After an hour of scrolling, there's a specific kind of tired that hits. Not the good kind. Your eyes are strained, mood's slightly off, and if someone asked what you actually read you'd struggle to name two things.

I kept telling myself I was keeping up. I wasn't. I was just staying occupied.

The people who actually know things, who can hold a conversation without fishing around in vague memory, almost none of them scroll feeds. They have a newsletter or two, a digest in the morning, and when it's done, it's done. That finite ending is the whole point.

Switched to that format a few months ago. I retain more. I have better conversations. And I catch myself noticing how much of what I called "being informed" was really just my brain in motion, without going anywhere.

Anyone else made this switch? Curious what formats or sources actually stuck for you.

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 12 days ago
▲ 19 r/budget

I used to try tracking my finances over and over again, and every time I’d quit within two weeks.

I’d build a full system, track everything, try to do it “properly”… and then burn out.

The problem was I was just trying to do too much at once.

At some point, I simplified it.

Instead of tracking everything, I picked one thing that was clearly a problem: eating out.

For a month, that’s all I tracked.

I've made it simple for myself and that was the reason it sticked.

I started noticing patterns I never saw before, and I became way more aware of my spending without forcing it.

And I did the tracking all from a singel google sheet

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 17 days ago

I used to try tracking my finances over and over again, and every time I’d quit within two weeks.

I’d build a full system, track everything, try to do it “properly”… and then burn out.

The problem was I was just trying to do too much at once.

At some point, I simplified it.

Instead of tracking everything, I picked one thing that was clearly a problem: eating out.

For a month, that’s all I tracked.

I've made it simple for myself and that was the reason it sticked.

I started noticing patterns I never saw before, and I became way more aware of my spending without forcing it.

And I did the tracking all from a singel google sheet

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 17 days ago

Scrolling through multiple media destroys your brain so much it's actually insane

Feeds are built for engagement and a small boost of dopamin . Infinite scroll trains you to chase the next thing instead of finishing the current one. Result: shallow thinking, zero retention.

People who are actually informed don’t consume more instead they consume better. They select what's actually important and they consume that. They have the power to chose their own sources.

Replace your feeds with 1–3 high-quality sources. Read them fully once a day. Then close it. Test it for a week and see if your thinking improves.

I've tried it my self and it honestly gave me so much value. Like imagine if you only get what you want with no other distractions. It almost feels a bit weird but yes you can get just value. I've did it using a tool called read what matters.

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u/Ill-Actuary-9528 — 17 days ago