It’s gotten to the point where I can’t even look at pictures of myself or at myself in the mirror without feeling a mix of both “on the verge of tears” and wanting to punch something. I’ve never really had any success with women, I’ve been called ugly and all sorts of colorful slurs frequently. I genuinely think I’ve finally identified at least part of why I have negative success, and I earnestly do believe having a very weak chin and jawline is messing me up horrendously. Now, I know the online space loves to say “just be confident” as if that’s some sort of magical spell to cast on oneself (I’ve been plenty confident until the literal breaking point, and it hasn’t worked at all which has led me back to the drawing board). “It doesn’t matter as long as your personality is great etc” in my experience looks matter way more than what most people want to admit, especially as a guy.
I’ve tried growing a beard to sort of help, but I don’t think it helps much because you can still definitely tell. Is surgery for something like this even a super realistic option? I’m sure it’s millions of dollars.