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Soooo for those of you who mightnt know the Debs is I'm pretty sure exclusively at the very least a European thing it's just like a big party we have where normally you go with a date.
I'm on the fence about asking someone I think I really like for a couple of different reasons but the main one being is that someone I used to be friends with is very obvious into her to the point that when his sister even mentioned it he pushed her. Like he's VERY defensive.
We were recently on a holiday with the class and I was sitting next to her on the plane in and back and I did as much investigation as I could. Now I didn't do this part because I like her this was before I even thought about asking her but I did share some stories about the guy that likes her and why were not friends anymore. Well the main reason is that he's really homophobic but I didn't mention that bc I'm not going to out myself just to put her off of him.
Anyways it doesn't seem that she's into him anymore and none of my stories were lies or exadurations and I didn't share any of the ones of him being homophobic so I think if she knew them all she definitely wouldn't be interested.
But see now I'm just wondering would asking her be very bad of me to do because although I'm not still friends with this other guy he is in our friend group of 5 people which makes things awkward as it is.