A guy I've been talking for a few months.
Saturday he didn't text me. I sent him a meme and later "Hope you're having a good day" message. He didn't reply.
Sunday morming he messaged that yesterday got pretty busy and he ended up being injured his back at a gym, then bed lidden with pain killers and wished me a good day.
I called him to check up on him but he didn't pick up.
I messaged that I understand if he doesn't want to talk for whatever reason but asked to call me if he can, as I want to see if he's alright.
Today is Monday. No messages from him till now let alone the call.
I'm worried but also mad that he just shuts down like this.. I'm sure he's the one who feel the most shitty about this situation....
But "I'm injuered, have a good day" and silence...
Like.. do you expect me to not worry and just be okay because you "kindly informed" me like this? .....
I can't just go to his house to take care of him, because we leave very far away.
He mentioned that while growing up, no one took care of him and he needed to do everything himself.
I won't be texting him again as I don't want to push him. But once he reachs out to me I will tell him I'm sad and mad about this. Any thoughts?
TL;DR : Mad at how he communicates after he got injured.