Why does she keep humiliating me in front of others.
My mom has always been the type of mom to take pictures of my room or video any tantrums i threw and threaten to send them to my classmates, teachers or friends.
That went on for years. Now im about to turn 18 and i can say that i wasnt the best and most behaved kid and i have gotten my act together and nothing like that has happened in years.
But every once in a while if things arent going her way or my thoughts dont align with hers she will again make fun of me or downgrade me infront of others.
The most recent one happened a bit ago. I wasnt feeling well and needed to cancel an appointment. After 30 min of her arguing with me she called to cancel the appointment but because i was there while she called she started saying not just that i am not feeling well, but that: she isnt feeling well, yeh i dont know whats going on with her i gues we have to cancel this appointment. oh well just like always.
This doesnt sound as bad but after finally spending a few years without her criticizing me in front of others it kind of hurt to know that nothing really changed. She would always sh1t talk her side of the family to me but i didnt think that would spill into sh1t talking her own kids.
I dont know, i guess i dont really care but it hurts after also haring her say that she only "tolerates" me and being called all sorts of names.
Guess i thought that idk she changed.