u/Icy_Clock_8109

34/F…. Dealing with my first WLW breakup. So far I’m taking it okay, but I’m just curious … as someone who has been told I “present as straight”, how can I signal I’m happily queer? Of course once it comes up in conversation, I have no problem sharing but I’ve been told by some women that they didn’t approach me because I “look straight”. Not sure if it’s my clothes seeing more “fenminine” or how I carry myself … idk. I just wonder for when I get out and start dating which won’t be for a while while I heal. Side note - I met my now ex on a dating app, so we both knew each other’s sexuality up front and not just face value.