u/IcyManufacturer7480

I’m a pretty average looking woman but for some reason I’ve always been attracted to very confident and attractive men. I’ll literally develop feelings for the most unattainable people possible.

I’m in my late twenties and recently caught myself having a crush on a basketball player like I’m 14. It made me realize this has been a pattern my whole life.

The problem is I genuinely struggle to feel attracted to men I can* actually *date. Then I end up single for years because my brain keeps choosing fantasy over reality.

Does anyone else deal with this or am I just emotionally stupid? 😭