Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding after what I overheard?
I’m supposed to get married in 3 months. Last weekend my fiancé had his friends over and they were drinking in the backyard while I was inside cleaning up. I went outside to bring snacks and stopped when I heard one of his friends ask, “So do you actually think you’re ready to settle down already?”
My fiancé laughed and said, “I mean… she’s wife material. Doesn’t mean I’ll stop looking.”
Everyone laughed. One friend even said, “Bro really said subscriptions don’t stop because you bought the full version.”
I felt physically sick. I walked back inside before they saw me and haven’t told him I heard it. Since then I’ve been noticing little things… he turns his phone away from me, suddenly changed his password, and keeps liking thirst traps of random girls online.
When I brought up feeling disconnected lately, he told me I’m “creating problems out of nowhere.” My sister says maybe it was just drunk guy humor and I shouldn’t throw away a whole relationship over one joke, but honestly I can’t even look at him the same anymore.
Am I overreacting? :<