AITA for simply not wanting to make amends with my mother?
I (14M) and my mom (52F) were really tight-knit, you know? we were like THAT. Until recently about a month ago, when she found out i was gay. I didn't tell her, knowing our family is really strict about these sorts of things. It turns out she was indeed snooping through my texts, knowing she has the password. Now, she'd never tell my dad (51M) or big brother (18M, I already told him and told him she knows) but she shifted, drastically. Begging me not to let the devil manipulate me. She stopped letting me hang with friends at my local library (im homeschooled), convinced they're bad influences. It tore my heart. So many good memories, suddenly feeling so distant. She didnt actually talk to me, but talked AT me. Yesterday was the most tense Mother's Day EVER. And well, she wants ME to fix our relationship, saying I've changed, though i haven't at all.
So, AITA for truly just not wanting to deal with her? What should i do moving forward? Ill answer any questions. Any advice is encouraged.