Im18f. i think not getting into ANYthing specific with a guy is better cause at the end it's gonna end and it's better to not get attached or show vulnerability from the beginning
cause seriously, personally im chill and easy to talk to but when a guy talks to me who im like ..damn he's fine af then i become a total cold fish
and YES I know this mindset makes me not even experience good stuff but genuinely when I think about logically, I prefer to not start anything nice when the probability of getting hurt at the end is SO high. why would i put myself into a situation that it might hurt me BECOUSE OF someone else ?! it doesn't worth it. and i I know it's a risk which a lot of ppl are willing to take it cause definitely being in a mature relationship is nice but when I see myself in a position that i try not get involved into any specific thing with a guy i clearly notice my life is way better and calm but this doesn't mean that lil gut feeling is not in me that I wanna be somebody's person ( I genuinely see myself far from it)
i don't wanna sound cliche. I hope im not. it's just what i feel.
i'd like ppl to critique my way of thinking so brutal honesty would be appreciated.