Idk how to do a title for this so, I'm sorry before hand for that and for any grammar mistakes cause this is not my first language and neither did I ever make a post in here.
Hello there I'm a 21 year old girl who has a crush on her childhood classmate. Now this dude i met him in 2019. Used to get tutoring done from the same place. Went to different school but we are from the same area (kind of). Recently I got into contact with him. I had a crush on him as a kid, true but none of my friends knew and I didn't think too much of it nor did I chase him like the idiot I was as a kid in 8th grade. He had a glow up (we both used to be chubby). And finding his id i was shook that I even found him in the first place. I joked with him by texting wow you are alive. He was like yeah. One thing led to another we've been talking for like 2 months now.
We talk about anything and everything, flirt here and there. Also met him in person once during this whole thing, had a genuinely great time. So umm the crush on him came back. And not in a soft way, this shit hit me like a truck.
Might sound like hey both of you are doing great. But, he is a busy body. I'm too but unfortunately I'm always somehow glued to my phone or laptop so if he texts me most of the time I reply fast. And he is not in a situation for a relationship (i think he isn't cause he told me he is going through stuff giving he could get his dream job (kinda) even though he tried twice). And I believe he thinks of me as a friend who he can get weird with in a wholesome way.
I dont want to fumble him at all. I want a solid plan like a solid plan to get this guy. If I dont get him if after even having a plan and working with it, I won't have any regrets cause at least I tried. (Guys he is genuinely a fun person to be around and he is RESPECTFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!)