help pls
hi, so i have been figuring out that i have some issues when it comes to sex. i’ve been with my partner for 4 years, and in the beginning we were having sex all of the time, multiple times a day, etc. but now years later, we just moved into our own place and i feel like i just have such a hard time getting *there*. i’m incredibly attracted to him, i want him all of the time, but my body just doesn’t allow me to feel that. it makes me feel bad because he is always ready and willing, but it’s kinda just on my time all of the time, and i just don’t know how to not make it like that. growing up i was a very hypersexual person, and then when i met him, that kinda just..disappeared. i love him and love having sex with him, i just don’t know why it takes my body so long to get to that point. it makes me feel really ashamed and embarrassed, and honestly really emotional because i know that it makes him feel as if i don’t want him when that is not the case at all. anyway. if anyone has any tips or tricks to help a girl out i would appreciate that. (btw we are both 23)