UPDATED: 5/6/26 Original Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/s/V5TqtM96DC
…we did it. 5/4/26. After 4 days into his visit to my place and after a whole day of hanging out and socializing we began cuddling on the couch, closer than usual. We started to rub each others bodies and he placed his hand just on my upper butt. We move from a sitting cuddling position into a laying down position where we continue to rub each others bodies more. He says out loud that he doesn’t know what he wants. We talk more about it and he ends up asking me what i want. I told him i really wanted to kiss him, and after a few cuddles later we stare into each others eyes and start kissing. We start grabbing each other more and he starts to grab my butt.
Kissed for a while until we figured we should move to my room.
We grinded up on each other, it got really really passionate. I grinded on top of him while he grabbed my ass, and the opposite he started thrusting into me while i wrapped my legs around him with him on top. It felt so good. We took a quick break, where he does say that he loves me. He doesn’t trust anyone else more than he does me. And that he is actually attracted to me. Says usually not attracted to men but maybe i’m the one guy he is attracted to. After a pause he points out that he’s still pretty hard.
I went and grabbed his dick over his pajama pants for a while before he takes his dick out and i start stroking. After a while he starts to feel mine up too and takes mine out.We jack each other off and i make him cum pretty fast to the point where he was shocked. He makes me cum not too long after.
We cuddled and talked more about how we don’t want to do it super frequently, could be a special occasion thing. Brothers before friends. And the sex comes last. It was great.
That being said it was some of the best sex i’ve ever had even if we only ended up grinding and jacking each other off. I’ve never felt more connected to another person through sex before, and to use it to channel my love to the other vs seeking pleasure was amazing.
Where are we now in terms of our friendship? Well, things are still very fresh so we’re still figuring it out. We haven’t had a chance to talk more about it but i’m planning on telling him how transformative it was for me soon and he still is unsure how he feels about it, doesn’t regret it, and we’re still acting like the best friends we are. Not sure if it will happen again but i hope it does.