u/Ichikachan001

Hii reposting and trying this once again, I'll apologize now in case I ramble a bit or this gets a bit hard to follow (this might get pretty long)

Having been out of the dating world for awhile now I think it's time I started actively searching and putting myself out there more often. I’ve only had one relationship, and it was not great to put it lightly. That experience kind of pushed me away from dating for a while, but I think I’m finally at a point where I want to give it another shot. I'll also be up front with the fact that my last relationship left me with some trust issues that I am working on, so I might be slow to trust and open up at first but I still do my best to communicate and be honest about my feelings whenever I can. I think this goes without saying but please only message me if you are serious about trying to build something together and won't ghost in a week.

I’m open to a long-distance relationship. Despite being in Asia (Japan specifically) my work schedule leaves me awake through the nights a lot so I can work around EU and NA time zones easily enough honestly!

As for what I’m looking for, I’m super complex or anything. Communication and honesty matter a lot to me. It’s hard to build anything meaningful without those. I also really love the clingy, borderline suffocating types, but of course if you think we could get along well please feel free to message me! If we can get along and connect well that is what matters most to me

I’ll be upfront and say that I am pretty lonely, and I’ve been craving a real connection and genuine affection. I do have some emotional baggage and I struggle with my mental health at times, but I actively try to manage it as best as I can. I’m not looking for someone to dump my problems on, that’s not who I am, just something I think is fair to be honest about.

Even when I’m feeling low, I do take care of myself. Working out is one of my main ways to calm down and clear my head, and it’s a big part of my routine. I’d say I’m very adventurous too. I really love the outdoors and try to hike, camp, and climb whenever I get the chance. Since I am a firefighter so naturally fitness is extremely important in my line of work 😊

That said, most days you’ll still find me at home in my room, listening to music and playing games on my PC. I’m a pretty big gamer and into tech in general. It would be really nice to meet someone who’s also into gaming. I love the idea of sitting in a call late at night, talking while we play something together or even just watching stuff. I play a bit of everything, but lately I’ve getting through NG+ of Pragmata and absolutely loving it along with getting back into Project Zomboid! I do play plenty of other things as well like flight sims as you might be able to see from my profile lol, I just don’t want to turn this into a wall of text as I could talk about my favourites all night but if you are curious feel free to ask. I might not sound like it at first, but once I’m comfortable with someone I can talk a lot, about pretty much anything. Fair warning though, my sense of humour can be pretty dark

Despite my line work of actually have a lot of off time to do whatever so I will have plenty of time to call, text, play with, and just spend time in general if we match well with each other

Looks-wise, if you’re curious, I’m a typical Asian, pretty short (161cm) more on the thick/fit side since I work out a lot, which is something I’m actually pretty proud of 👌 I’m fairly feminine despite being more of a tomboy personality wise, and I don’t really have much of a style and don't actually dress up like ever. And when it comes to more nsfw things I am mostly a service sub but can switch easily enough if needed, mostly just depends on my partner honestly, libido wise I would say I am on the higher end of the spectrum xd nothing too extreme or anything though.

If you made it this far, thank you for reading! If any of this sounds interesting to you, feel free to DM me and tell me a bit about yourself. I mostly use Discord, so I would like to move over there eventually.