u/Ice_Cream_Plij

Recently I shared a post about my marriage and how lovely this phase of my life has been 🥰
So many of you were happy for us and asked sweet questions. Thank you for all the love 🥹✨

But one comment genuinely shocked me. 🥲Someone assumed I had a past and I am keeping it hidden from my partner or that my husband is some kind of retirement plan.

First of all…on what basis do people make such assumptions????😭
We were honest with each other before marriage and both of us had not lost our v-cards before getting married🥲 (ofc because of this we faced few challenges)

Second, marriage is not a retirement plan yaar🥲 Just because I’m not earning right now doesn’t mean I married for money. I was earning before marriage and I’ll continue my job after sometime .

Marriage, for me, is about love, trust, peace, and finding your person🥰 Definitely not a retirement plan 🥲

Guys…. if you search for a partner with this kind of mindset na toh it’ll become very difficult for you to find genuine love. Please stop assuming things. Stop creating imaginary stories in your head. Not everyone is what you think they are. ✨🌸

Peace 🫶🏻✨

Hey everyone ☺️
Just wanted to share something positive here 🌸.
It’s been 6 months since my marriage(AM Ofc)

Before him, I had met a few people and honestly didn’t have the best experiences 🥲. It was his second time too. But when we met, it just felt… easy. He made me feel so comfortable from the start, and for the first time, I could actually picture a future with someone 😛

We took a few weeks to get to know each other. He used to travel between cities just to meet me, and those little efforts meant a lot 😙. Somewhere in between those conversations and meetings, I just knew 🤍

I moved to his city after marriage, which was a big change, but he made it feel safe and warm. He’s kind, respectful, and the way he takes care of me in small small ways… it’s everything 🫶 It genuinely feels like I found my home 🏡

Married life isn’t perfect, we do have our tiny fights and silent moments 😅 but we’ve set simple rules like not sleeping without sorting things out and always choosing each other at the end of the day. And honestly, the patch-up hugs feel like home 🥹

He’s been so patient with me, especially when it came to getting comfortable emotionally and physically. Never any pressure, just “take your time” energy 🥰

My in-laws have also been really sweet and welcoming. They truly treat me like their own, and that made this whole journey so much easier 🌸

Just wanted to say, good people do exist in arranged setups too. When it’s right, it won’t feel forced… it’ll just feel like home ✨🧿
No najar thu thu 🥹🧿🌸