u/Iam_amorty

Have the dollar exchange rates increased recently?

I (23M) need some advice about my relationship. My girlfriend (24F) and I have been together for about a year, and we’ve been talking about getting married. Overall, our relationship is really good, except when it comes to our sex life.

She experienced sexual abuse as a child, so she’s never really shown much interest in sex. I’ve always tried to respect that and never pressured her into anything. Recently though, she told me that before we met, she had a one-night stand where she did things she’s never been willing to do with me, and she says she doesn’t plan on ever doing those things again with anyone.

That honestly really hurt me, and I’m struggling to understand it. I want to be supportive and respectful of her past, but I can’t help feeling confused and kind of rejected. I tried talking to her about it, but she didn’t want to discuss it further.

Has anyone been in a similar situation or have any advice on how to handle this?