A bit of context:
I started this new relationship and it really feels like I finally found my person, so of course I wanted to introduce him to my friends. My bf and I are from different countries but he’s been to mine many times and before meeting me he even lived here for two years, so he knows how life is here.
What happened:
Agreed to meet this friend of mine (we’ll call her “R”) and went to a pub to grab some drinks so she could finally meet him. The conversation was overall good, I just noticed that she was being very loud compared to how she usually speaks even if there was no need to, but it was fine, I just thought she was either nervous or happy, I could tell.
After that we went for a walk (it was Christmas time) and she said “oh I like to see through the windows to see the decorations” and then looking straight at my bf she added “and if there is a naked man behind the window it’s even better”.
My bf and I looked at each other with a “that is weird” expression, and I tried to make a joke over that to move on from what R said, so I said “I’m sure that’s (looking in other people houses) is illegal in many countries”. R just looked at my bf again straight in the eye and said again with a little smile “yes but if there is a naked man behind the window it would be great”. Again, my bf and I looked at each other without say anything and just decided to keep walking.
A few days later:
The evening ended and I wasn’t thinking much about what happened because she’s my friend, so I just thought it was just a weird thing to say without giving it any explanation. It was when another of my friend asked me how it went and I told them what happened that I was told that she was flirting with him, showing him that she really needed a man in that moment. I talked to another friend too and they told me the exact same thing. Now it’s stuck in my mind and I just want to move on but I don’t know if I should consider R one of my closest friends anymore or not.
AIO?
P.s.: sorry for my English, it is not my first language
EDIT: I gave the information about my bf knowing pretty much everything of my country because R kept telling him how life is here during the evening, like if it was his first time visiting but I forgot to mention it in the story.