I am F31, I have been married for over 5 years, in that 5 years I probably had sex with my husband maybe 20-30 times.
Problem is, he is just not interested. The only time he is truly in mood or passionate is during vacation, 1 day day in 30 day holiday.
But it just doesn’t happen. It’s been like months since we last did it.
Sometimes I give him surprise BJs which he seems to be enjoying, but his attitude is more like, okay sure if that’s what you wanna do then sure..
He never once ate me out unexpectedly or initiated any sex ever. I ask him is something wrong with me, is there anything you don’t like? He says no, he doesn’t feel it.
I told him sex feels good, why aren’t you into it, and he has no answer to that.
He isn’t gay, or cheating on me. He was a virgin when we got married also.
I just don’t know what’s wrong.