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Do you give a “Starfish” Performance during Sex?

The Males these days are gossiping about the ladies giving bad/lazy sexual energy! Do you black ladies give full attention and peak energy during sex? Are any of you “Starfish”

STARFISH: a lady who just lays there!

what motivates you for full participation? what can keep you from giving a full performance?

As for me, Back when I was more caring of how my partner sexual experience was, I would do all the extra’s, like thrusting back while doggy or missionary (although from my lack of rhythm would throw him off, and then be told to chill, resulting in me becoming a Starfish) or while in doggy trying to catch his rhythm he’d stop thrusting and now I have to do a count or start singing ah ah ah ah staying alive, staying alive and then I’m in my head and no longer able to try to catch my orgasm, so then the entire session is now just for him and I’m no longer in it for mutual pleasure. Me personally if I’m trying to get pleasure, I’m proudly STARFISHING! unless its the face down pillow under pelvis then I’m Bucking and fucking!

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