u/I__Hukam

Height & Weight: 170 cm, 70 kg

Location: Germany

Residence: Rented accommodation in Germany, own residence in Pakistan

Education: Master’s in Animal Sciences

Income Source: Working as an Economist

Marital Status: Single, never married

Religion & Practicing Details:

I have faith in Allah and believe that throughout different phases of life, we move closer to Him, sometimes away from Him, and eventually find our way back.

In practice, I try to hold on to the values that matter to me most, including Zakat, charity, cleanliness, personal responsibility, and trying to live with sincerity and good intentions.

Fasting and prayers over last few years have diminished, however like I said before, its a back and forth with finding my way back to Him

Hobbies & Interests:

Writing has always been close to me. Words have often felt like a faithful friend, and I enjoy expressing myself through them.

I am trying to build a stronger habit of reading. At this point, there is almost a book in every room, though I would still like reading to become a more consistent and productive part of my life.

I enjoy movies, TV shows, and a few animes that I have followed for a long time, especially One Piece.

Travelling has also become important to me in recent years, especially with the freedom of movement within Europe. When I travel, I am less interested in just visiting famous spots for pictures and more interested in cafés, theatres, street performances, and experiencing the local atmosphere.

From time to time, I also play Dota and sometimes travel for esports events. Music wise, my happy place is usually jazz, blues, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, or anything with a good beat.

Running is a newer interest for me, and I have signed up for a marathon towards the end of the year.

Family Details:

I have 3 siblings, all married and settled in different countries. My mother has passed away, and my father is still in Pakistan.

Requirements for a Partner:

I am looking for someone preferably based in Europe, who is serious about settling down and building a family.

For me, it is important that we share similar views on family, including being there for loved ones while also maintaining healthy boundaries and personal space.

I value someone who can distinguish between personality, religion, culture, and social expectations, and who can explain who they are beyond what society expects from them.

I believe in having roadmaps for life. They do not always need to work out exactly as planned, but I think a person should have some idea of how they want their immediate and long term future to look.

I would appreciate someone who is open to trying new things, understands her core values, and has a sense of self accountability.

I do not plan on returning to Pakistan permanently. Life would initially be in Germany, where knowing or learning German is important, but in the future I may also consider moving to the UK or US depending on career, family, and life opportunities.

I would prefer someone who is open to pursuing her own career or personal development. I would like my partner to have her own understanding of the world, her own interests, and a healthy sense of individuality.

Personal space, mutual respect, emotional maturity, and the ability to communicate honestly are important to me, plus giving people benefit of the doubt time to time and understanding that every saint has a past & every sinner has a future is just beautiful.

Deal Breakers:

Shirk (khuda aur insan dono sath), lack of self accountability, excessive social media use, caring too much about other people’s opinions, not looking after one’s health, narcissism, and intolerance.

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Nikkah in 6 to 8 months, after compatibility is established.