u/IWishMusicKilledKate

I have a 6 year old, 2 year old and a 6 month old. I do everything for them on top of working full time and being full time childcare for the littles. I pay all the bills, I’m in over my head with debt at this point. My husband sporadically works and contributes almost nothing, he’s somewhat helpful with the kids. He doesn’t respect me, he doesn’t prioritize me or our family, he’s very selfish. He’s been doing work for our neighbor and without telling me they agreed she would give him her son’s old car as payment. It needs $3000+ in repairs to be drivable, takes premium gas and insurance will be around $250 a month. He doesn’t contribute to any bills but is convinced he will have money for this. He wants to sell my car he’s been driving to afford this (I have another car I financed). I feel so disrespected and used. It’s hard to even make myself get out of bed. I don’t even know how to approach him. I’m just done.