What's the nicest way to tell someone, (F35) I'm (F34) NOT into them?
TW : mentions drinking
Little bit of a background, myself and my partner (both F34) are poly and have been going to this café/bar for the past couple weeks on Friday. We've have been meeting up with a (my partner's mutual) friend, "Z" (F30's unsure actual age), along with other people in a social setting. My partner and her are close, and I'm getting to know her, chat, flirt, etc. Note: while at the café/bar, I DO get a little drunk, and my partner is always the DD.
Today, "Z" (the friend) invited me over to her place to hang out and spend time together, completely sober. We chatted a little bit and then she started to make out with me. I admit I had kissed her a couple times at the bar, but again, as a little drunk. Now, being completely sober, I wasn't as into it as I thought I would be, made up an excuse and left. How do I nicely tell "Z" I'm not actually that into her, without hurting her feelings too much? This was the first time we've hung out, just the two of us in a more private setting.