u/INeedItGentle

Hello, I’m 30, Female, GMT, United Kingdom.

I’m looking for someone to make a meaningful connection with, something long-term. I’m so incredibly introverted, to the point that I’ve made myself really lonely. I’m looking for connection on all elements, I want to love someone and be loved back, I want someone to talk to late into the night, someone I could share my sexual fantasies with as-well.
I’m happy to share pictures, but not sexual photos. Selfies, yes, nudes no 😒 Sorry.

I would also like to be in a sub/dom partnership, maybe I should have led with that, with a gentle dom who wants a relationship too. I like pet names and praise 🥺.

I spend my days gaming, mostly comfy/nerdy games. I like Truck Simulator, Animal Crossings, Guild Wars 2, Horizon Zero Dawn, Zelda, Ghost of Tsushima, Untitled Goose Game, and so many more I can’t remember right now. I would love to game you, I mostly do this at night.

I also spend my days writing, I’m an aspiring writer, I don’t want to make this career, I already have one, but I do want it to be part of my life.

I’m open to people from all over the world, but I’d prefer Europe, USA, United Kingdom, Australia. I’d be open to people outside of these countries, but you’d have to speak English fluently, sorry ☹️. I do tend to stay up pretty late, as I’m writing this it’s 1am 😓. I’ve got a degree in psychology, and another in law, and I’m hoping to take my qualifying exams soon.

My personality is…very attached, very loving, gentle. I really, really want someone to love. I want someone I can message when I wake up, and fall asleep talking to 🥺.

I’d prefer people my age and older, though I am open to someone younger, just not below 25, I don’t want to feel like a cougar 😂.

A little about me, I have AuDHD, so I can swing from being hyper-focused to absolutely hard to pin down. Like I spent two months researching prion diseases for no reason apart from I was fascinated, whilst also trying to study 😆. I have more hobbies that I can even count. Knitting, crochet, cross stitch, leather-working, lego, I also adore putting together furniture, gaming, cooking, embroidery. I like making things with my hands. I’m also trying to get back into drawing. I also read a hell of a lot, I have a ridiculous amount of books, I had to stop buying physical copies as I had no room 🥲

I will be asking for pictures if we are to be talking, I don’t want to be sharing my life with a nameless person, and I am seeking someone that I can be in a relationship with. But I will warn you again, I am a little clingy, and I get attached easily.

I have travelled a little, mostly to the USA, visiting national parks, I forgot to mention I love hiking 😌 so expect annoying nature photos. I have a dog, elderly, who is pretty ill, so be prepared for me to need to abruptly halt conversations to corral that little menace.

I wonder if this might help, but here are some of my favourites songs:
- Wicked Games - Chris Isaak
- Nights in White Satin - the Moody Blues
- Ordinary World -Duran Duran
- Bitter Sweet Symphony - Verve
- Don’t Dream It’s Over - Crowed House
- Withering Heights - Kate Bush
- Everybody Wants To Rule the World - Tears for Fears
- Chop Suey - System of a Down.
- Everybody’s Changing - Keane.
- Annies Song - John Denver
- Vincent - Don McLean.
- Cold - Chris Stapleton.
- Hurt - Johnny Cash.
And many more.

I’m not sure what else to put, I’m very shy, I’ve never done this before ☺️. I look forward to meeting someone, seeing where this all goes.

Ps, if we got serious I would want to meet 😀.