Do girls find being a virgin a bad sign?
Basically I’m 20 and I’ve never gone out with girl. It’s not that I haven’t always tried, but lately I really haven’t. I been trying to work on myself, and now I kinda think I might be ready to get back out there. Only thing is that I have no experience with dating or being intimate really. I want to preface that I really am not looking to date for the sake of hooking up, it’s just the fact that Im a noob to this stuff that kinda makes me nervous. I’m someone who gets discouraged really easily when it comes to social stuff. And being that close with someone has always scared me (I got bullied pretty bad and it made me develop walls, and I have a really hard time letting people in). Its funny, the idea of surface level rejection isn’t what scares me, its the idea of actually opening up to someone and sharing true self and them they reject the real you, that’s always been scared to come out.
TLDR: 20 yr old virgin looking to finally get into a relationship, how much of an issue is being a virgin?