Is This Real or a Rebound?
I've been speaking to a guy for marriage purposes.
We've found we're compatible but considering we're both coming from divorce + kids, we're taking our time to vet/know one another.
It's been few weeks of texting, a few irl meetings. Everything seems good. We're obviously attracted to each other and I've said I want to do things the right way. However there's always a nagging fear in the back of my mind that what if a man is just spending a few months "with" me as a time pass and then will back out when it actually comes to marriage?
I'm pretty confident - don't want to sound arrogant but Alhumdulillah I've been blessed in many ways - but as an attractive woman, the fear of being "used" is still there.
How can I gauge that I'm not a rebound and someone is sincerely considering me in this "getting to know you" stage?
Ladies please give your perspective if you've been through this and men... lmk how your brains work lol.