Kink negotiations failed. Wife is too loving and attentive
*Light trigger for BDSM kink topic*
Opened up to my wife about wanting to be degraded in bed. She agreed to try out a roleplay scenario with me.
Afternoon before our agreed roleplay night she was her usual loving and caring self. She went shopping, bought me my favorite snacks. She cooked me dinner. Gave me lots of love and attention...
Obviously, my spoiled ass was distraught and started crying because I thought she was going to be mean to me and was really excited.
She thought she was just going to try being mean for sex, not leading up to it.
Anyway - kink negotiation failed. We played Subnautica the rest of the night.
Seafood Paella with a cabbage slaw
Edit to add: Please no advice.
Obviously, my wife and I communicated.
This was not a vent or an advice seeking post. I just wanted to share a funny kink fail and reading this post does not give you the full context of my wife and I's failed degradation play. Only like. 23% of the full context.