I am a 31 years old male. Both cis and hetero for information. I am confused as wether im trully demisexual or wether i just have high standard.
I have researched on forum or took some test on and by some people testimony i am wither demisexual or have to high standard to date anybody.
I want to hopefully form a couple with someone yet i am queationing this.
Point to me as being demi sexual.
First Since my first "wet" dream as a teen ive never had another. Not even when i was in a couple with crushes in highschool. I found this wierd because ive been in couple with both overwight and underweight people so body type wasnt the issue here.
Second Ive been proposed to have sex by someone ive met for 6 hours. Ive déclined ididnt feel anything for that person at all accept my brain telling me 6 hpurs is not enough time to go there yet. My hétérosexuel friend looked at me like i qas an alien for thibking that. Its not the single time this happened.
Third On dating site
Most of time i look out at the bio and for comon interest like the women could be in bikini in this doesnt influence me anymore than if she like sushi or not.
Point aigainst being demisexual and kust having high standard.
Third Point above.
-- i always look for "red flags" even when i dont want to its like subconscious and it often make subsequent contact less likely to happen.
-- i have a high libidos like my last partner saidand watch porn
Lastly ill add that ive never felt "the love at first sight" thing. Ive never felt like that spark that supposé to give you "butterfly" in the stomach
Sometime i wonder if im juat broken...