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Online I see people speaking of this quote bij Jacques Derrida:

“how can I say 'I love you', if I know the love is you .. the word 'love' either as a verb or a noun would be destroyed in front of you”

Some say it's from Writing and Difference, but I couldn't find it in there. Does anyone know where this quote is from, and whether Derrida said this at all?