u/Hummus_Bunny69

Since starting my transition 5 years ago, after every breakup they suddenly say a bunch of transphobic things about me :( my past 3 partners have all been queer and ally’s and so supportive, and my gender identity has never been a “big thing” for my relationships. But then as soon as we breakup, they run around town telling everyone they never saw me as a man and that they don’t understand how I could ever be a man. It’s such a low blow, right for my deepest insecurity. it’s heartbreaking, it’s betrayal :(