Hey all, first time talking to anyone about this.
I was cheated on about a year ago. I don’t know all the details, but I know it happened and it’s been admitted. I’m not interested in the details due to the hurt and pain.
A little background… Been working hard the last 10 years and trying to hold the relationship together with my single income. She’s been in school all this time. She graduated last year and as soon as the end date came by, it was all revealed. I’d imagine it went on for a couple months before finishing the doctorate degree I’ve supported her for all these years. Worked with my hands and had hard work.
The narrative has changed now that she can be semi independent and has started unreasonable retaliations towards me for no reason. She’s told me repeatedly that she would be sad if we were to part ways but it’s starting to become apparent that this is almost all BS.
I’m hurt, I feel betrayed and have lost trust in a lot of people in the present, and future. Been starting to question my past. I know I need to talk to someone but haven’t found myself in a position to talk to anyone about this.
Is this a doomed marriage?