u/Humble_Assistant_442

What a damn shame. It was a few months of excitement. He’s beautiful and charming and charismatic and intelligent and the sex is absolutely fire. But his hot and cold behaviour after intimacy absolutely wrecks my head, and I just can’t do it.

What’s the best way of ending this? I don’t think he suspects anything is wrong. I think asking for more consistency isn’t authentic to him either so there’s no point. It’s how he regulates his nervous system.

I’m so disappointed. What do you say in these scenarios?