My child’s father moved on immediately after our baby
i seriously just need to vent because i feel like nobody understands how insane this whole situation is except other moms
me and my childs father were not together the whole pregnancy but i honestly thought once the baby got here and he actually saw the baby and held the baby and everything that something would click in his brain and he would want his family. like idk maybe that sounds stupid but i really believed that
instead literally right after our baby was born he starts dating this older girl and acting like everything is perfect meanwhile im at home exhausted with a newborn barely sleeping and trying to adjust to being a mom for the first time
and before anyone says “well technically he was single” okay but what kind of woman even wants a man with a newborn baby?? like genuinely. i could never. especially knowing the mother just had the baby. its honestly weird to me and kinda sad
i even reached out to her nicely at first because i thought maybe she didnt know everything. i came to her woman to woman and told her about him and some of the things he did during our relationship because i genuinely thought if another girl warned me i would wanna know too?? and she basically just said she appreciated it but was still gonna make her own decision. which honestly shocked me because every other girl hes talked to after me listened once they realized what kind of person he actually is
after that i got so frustrated because i felt like she wasnt listening to anything i was saying and honestly i started feeling like she thought i was just some bitter baby mom for no reason. i literally ended up editing screenshots to make it look like he was cheating on her because at that point i was convinced she was never gonna leave him unless she saw “proof” with her own eyes and somehow even that still wasnt enough for her to leave
i just feel like she thinks shes different or special or something because shes older than me and acts all mature but if a man can move on that fast after having a baby with someone what makes her think shes magically gonna be treated differently?
and now i have to sit here watching them play happy relationship while im the one actually dealing with the reality of having a newborn every single day
idk maybe other moms will understand what i mean because this whole thing has honestly messed with my head so bad