u/HoldOnLuisito

▲ 6 r/LDR

(22M) Would you still have a LDR if you know you'll never see them in real life?

I (22M) have been talking to someone online for a few months. He's incredible in so many aspects, and we speak on the phone every night until we fall asleep, dreaming about the moment we'll finally be in the same country, city and house. But I'm almost sure we won't be able to move together in the future, I don't want to say it's ''impossible'', but it's VERY unlikely. (He does believe we'll make it happen, like the power of love will just help us find a way)

It's sad and I am so conlifcted because he has so many qualities I love in a partner, I enjoy every single moment and my days are brighter because we're so connected even in the distance <3 But I've been thru LDR before, I used to believe, just like him now, that love can beat real life circumstances... I don't believe it anymore. And this time, it's even a little bit risky for us to meet irl.

I've been Honest, I told him about this but he insists we should still try it if we love each other. Should I just end it now or wait until it all, inevitably, comes to an end?

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u/HoldOnLuisito — 1 day ago